The Perfect Bae-cation

Summer is here and we’re all dying to vacay! And who’s better to vacation with than your man? It’s a pretty wild and fun experience, and guess what! You actually have the power to make your vacation ten times more exciting, if you pick the perfect spot for you and your honey. Not sure how? Well, I’m your girl! First, we’ll briefly overview the things your vacation should provide for your specific relationship type: a couple with children, a growing couple, or a new couple. Then we’ll go over some spicy specific destinations.

Between work, school, stress, daily hassles, and everything that life brings, it can be very difficult for a family to spend the proper quality time that they need. To catch up on this needed time, vacationing can be the perfect solution. If you’re a couple with children and plan to vacation as a family, your vacation choice should fulfill the three main categories of quality time:

(1) quality time as a whole family,
(2) quality time just amongst the kids, and

(3) quality time amongst you and your man.

This might sound impossible, but it can actually be done much simpler than you think. For example, vacation areas with nice beaches, are some of the most perfect places for you and your family. Realistically you and your man will tire out faster than the kids. So, let the kids continue to play. While their bonding and building the biggest sand castle ever, you guys can lay back, unwind, and have a romantic conversation. Now, if you’re looking for something a little more, cruises and resorts can give you exactly what you are looking for. And as an added bonus, for families with small kids, most have kid-watch sections, giving you an hour or two alone with bae!

As a growing couple, a couple who’s settling down and preparing for a future, your vacation should serve as a source of reconnection. After so many years together, it is important to add more fuel to your flame, because any flame big or small can tinker out with time, but only if you let it. So don’t! Take a break this summer and reconnect. My best suggestion is to go somewhere far! Out of the country if you can afford it. Psychologically, if two people go to an unfamiliar place, they typically attach themselves to each other because they are the only people or thing that’s familiar to them. So, take advantage of this phenomenon of the mind, and remind yourselves of why you fell in love in the first place and why your love should continue and finish blossoming. Couple activities including meditation, spa dates, {man rowing you], help with reconnection and spiritual attachment. These activities are great, but don’t get me wrong, everything you do, doesn’t have to be slow pace. You should have days during your trip that you kick it up a notch, and have fun. In addition, your vacation spot should have a very beautiful and peaceful scenery to help soothe and clear your minds of any issues you had at home.

Lastly, if you’re a new couple, go small! Ok, you might not like the sound of this, but I assure you it’s the best choice in the end. Think about it, the beginning of any relationship is usually the most hot and exciting stages of the relationship. Everything you guys do together is a new experience for you guys as a couple. Thus, pretty much everything will be ten times more fun now than later down the road. So, take advantage of the fact that right now you guys require less effort and money to have a great time. I suggest to just stay at a comfortable hotel and enjoy a local amusement park or beach. Okay now that maybe very small. So if you guys need a little more, try to travel to a different state and enjoy any free (or close to free) museums or attractions. Be sure to go to new clubs, restaurants, and do pretty much anything that will give you a big bang for a small buck. Also, make sure you checkout any sale or bargain website, like groupon or priceline, to cut back your price.


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